Assuming that things went well at the club, sometime in the next few days one of you (it might just as well be the girl as the boy) will text the other and ask them out for a The fact that both of you are aware that you’re on a date while simultaneously pretending that it’s not a date can make things quite awkward, but that’s how it’s done.

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It’s not as easy as going up to someone and offer them a drink or ask them to dance.

Many people see this as too forward and will get defensive if they are approached in this way.

Try not to get offended or assume that he’s not into you if he doesn’t bring you flowers, if he doesn’t hold the door up for you, if he doesn’t pay for the movie or if he doesn’t offer to walk you home.

Instead, he will always respect you and he will never assume that you are weak or bad at something just because you’re a girl.

Depending on your moves and all-around charm, you might just share that one dance, or you might even spend the night together.

Either way, the chances are good that you’ll exchange phone numbers, which is crucial for the next step.

But from my experience, this is one of the most common scenarios.

When I lived in Italy, I often got approached by different men who wanted to ask me out.

It’s important to keep track of whether he ends his text messages with meaning ”kiss”.

Eventually you’ll have another date, usually at the cinema, and if that goes well too, you’ll have what constitutes a relationship.

Although it might still be a bit early to change your status.