Being what they call an older woman, I have been dating younger men for quite awhile. When you make the initial contact, if it is just casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it. Texting is fine, I’m not against it, but when it comes to dating and meeting in the beginning, don’t text everything to arrange dating. Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call.4. If it’s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. So if you pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share, you’ll be showing respect. Communicate with her, especially on the first date. It’s uncomfortable for both, and there’s no way of having any kind of fun or spontaneous conversation.

Be extra careful though, if you're bothered about the age gap, he can be influenced by it too.

With the outside pressure focusing on that point, why add to it?

Wider age gaps often have bigger problems since the generation gap (and the natural differences that come with it - culturally and physically) will be harder to overcome.

Don't listen to what people say because age does matter when dating younger men, but it doesnt have to be the be all and end all of your relationship dating.

Young males have big dreams and bigger hopes, which can be infectious.

This could be scary because, as somebody older and hopefully wiser, sometimes you may have to be the one to break it to them that dreams dont always come true.

The same goes if you are going to meet at a certain time, and you are going to be late, text her and let her know.9.

Neither one of you knows ahead of time where this will go. The most important is in getting to know one another, having fun, being honest and upfront.

Younger men are more fun, exciting, energetic, inclined to romantic gestures, and are less likely to be deceitful.