I can relate to all the questions we receive on a personal level because once upon a time, I too was banging my head against the table in an effort to understand .It wasn’t an easy process, but I eventually reached a point where it all made sense and all my questions and confusions suddenly evaporated.Some men exploit this by saying things they don’t really feel or believe in order to get what they want, and other men hold back from expressing how they truly feel, knowing that once the words are out there the dynamic of the relationship will irrevocably be altered.

Show him how happy it made you when he did such and such.

Nothing is more attractive and appealing to a man than a woman who is thoroughly with him.

Countless studies have shown that women primarily gain their sense of worth and self-esteem through their interpersonal relationships while men measure their worth based on their ability to have an impact in the world and contribute in a meaningful way.

(Source) If a man is at work, then that is the sole center of his world and nothing exists outside of that.

The trick is to do it in a way that’s encouraging, not one that’s threatening, demanding, or nagging.

When he does something you like and appreciate, acknowledge it and reward him for it.

Y no digo que toda conducta sea relativa y que no se pueda definir el bien y el mal, sino que no se pueden dar opiniones sobre el comportamiento de los demás sin conocer lo que ocurre y cómo esas personas se sienten.

Don’t despair – I have a little secret that is sure to perk you up: men – yes, those creatures who are so often the bane of our very existence, the ones who puzzle us and tear us apart inside, the ones that cause so much grief but always keep us coming back for more – are not all that difficult to understand.

Sadly, a lot of relationships collapse before they even get off the ground because the girl can’t handle the sudden decrease in daily texts and instead of dealing with it, she lashes out at the guy and demands explanations for every text he doesn’t reply to.