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I tried to deny it, but when I thought about my dating history, I realised that my friends were right.
While I may flirt or develop friendships with other Black gay men, I’ve never seriously pursued a relationship with one.
But while the absence of queer POC-centric establishments is definitely an issue, many of the other Black men I see at gay bars around Manhattan and Brooklyn are booed up with white men, too.
Could we all be perpetuating internalised racism by consciously, or even unconsciously, excluding Black men and other men of colour as romantic prospects?
When I’m on Tinder, the men I’m more likely to swipe right are usually athletic white men between 21 and 30.
And when I scroll through Grindr’s grid of faceless torsos, I find myself only messaging guys with complexions lighter than a paper bag.
Bigger City Profile - J-Mo Bear Today we’re interviewing a big man, chaser, and internet viral sensation J-Mobear.
His popular tumblr blog j-mobear.and his You Tube channel J Mo have been seen across Tumblr, Twitter, Facebook and the rest of social media due to his two popular dancing videos that have received millions of views from around the world…Never sure what to say when you see a cute guy on here?And in doing that, are we only reinforcing the politics of desire that deem Black people less attractive?When I read a recent essay by Michael Arceneaux, his words hit me hard.A larger conversation about the racist, fat-phobic, and misogynist language of gay dating apps has also begun, which has allowed me to see that my dating prospects may also be a result of problematic societal messaging.Statements like "no fats or fems" or "no Blacks or Asians" litter profiles in hookup communities on Grindr, Jack'd, and similar platforms.Within my own family, I had two gay uncles who died of AIDS-related illnesses before I was 10.