it makes the 21 year old a total loser and a definite creep. 16 year olds should be thinking about school, friends, what to do on the weekend...

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Im 16 dating 21 year old dating a recovered alcoholic man

Life is not all about having the oldest, hottest, cutest boyfriend in school or on the block. HA HA I C YALL TRYIN TO B FUNNY YES IM BLACK N IF YOU DONT LIKE ME WRITIN N UPPER CASE OR THE FACT THAT IM GHETTO N I SHORTEN WORDS THAT UR PROBLEM..

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A 5 year difference doesn't seem like much when the couple is say...

25 & 30 or 48 & 53, in which case would be my parents, who have been together since my mom was 16.

Well in my country (England), I don't think it is, since the legal age of consent is 16, but since you're in America where the age is 18, it's probably more likely people are going to have a problem with it.

As long as the girl is mature enough for her age that she knows what she's doing, and knows what she wants, I don't see why it should be an issue, on, don't act like it's normal. a 21 year old should be in college and establishing their career. As long as the girl is mature enough for her age that she knows what she's doing, and knows what she wants, I don't see why it should be an issue, personally. 16 year olds tend not to be mature enough to be with someone who's 21.

One is probably in college or has a job, doesn't live at home & chances are if they do they no longer have a curfew. When I was 18 I went on one date with this guy I worked with that was 26.

One date was more than enough, we were just in two completely different phases in life.

Personally, I don't see how those things fit together.

It doesn't necassarily make the older person a 'creep' though.

After a couple of dates they start putting on the pressure. And I found his healthy, strong body very appealing.