He made fun of modern dating, saying, "By the time you get married now, the fun is over.In an arranged marriage, the fun starts after the wedding!The good news is that most men don't have a problem with this.

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But, as in all things, it's best to ask for his guidance.

The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.

There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.

Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.

God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.

But the Bible does not promise that God will provide a loving relationship for you while you sit around and do nothing.Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.But I do know this—if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.Rely on God's love, wisdom, and sustaining presence while you're dating.Though God won't do all the work for you, he'll be with you every step of the way.Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.