M.’s name, he received a new interim restriction: a total ban from campus.Bonsu’s lawsuit describes the period that followed as one of extreme stress, during which he lost weight, contracted pneumonia, and was forced to drop two courses because the restrictions placed on him precluded him from attending class during his midterm exams. By then he was living back home in Maryland, sick a second time with pneumonia and in a state of emotional collapse.

He also joined a fraternity (he was the only black member), played guitar in a campus jazz band, and tutored jazz guitarists at a local high school. “I can never come back here.” Her friend started teasing her, asking how it had gone. Just before Thanksgiving, according to a federal lawsuit filed against the university by Bonsu’s attorney, Brett Lampiasi, R. went to the dean of students and filed a complaint against Bonsu. The police investigated and closed the case with no charges filed.

Listen to the audio version of this article: Feature stories, read aloud: download the Audm app for your i Phone. On January 12, 2015, Bonsu got an email from a school administrator informing him that a “very serious” allegation had been lodged against him and that until a hearing was held, he was subject to “interim restrictions”: He could not contact R.

Bonsu, who was born in Maryland, is the son of Ghanaian immigrants.

He chose UMass because it gave him the opportunity to pursue his two passions, science and music.

Effective immediately, Bonsu was banned from all university housing and was allowed on campus only to attend classes.

His mother and an uncle drove up from Maryland to help him appeal his restrictions, but were largely unsuccessful.

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