And you can very easily tell if a guy has the former.

I got a question from a reader seeking advice, and I wanted to respond to him publicly since I think others might benefit from discussing these issues.

(This question was posted publicly, so I don’t believe I’m violating his privacy).

If we’re being honest here, I was one of these girls at one point.

From the ages of 17 to 20, I was only interested in white guys.

Here’s the question: As some of you may have noticed, I like to respond to questions by breaking them down into smaller issues, so that’s what I’m going to do. I have kissed women but never dated or had sex with one First of all, this is interesting to me since most of the bi guys I hear from have more experience with women.

It’s really cool to hear from someone who has more experience with men.

I also went to Hong Kong last summer, and it really opened my eyes to my Chinese heritage.

There is a difference between having yellow fever and simply being attracted to the physical features of people from a certain culture.

My biggest worry is that you have only dated men because you are more attracted to men, and that now you only want to date a woman for convenience/societal acceptance reasons.