It’s not likely to happen like that at this age, and on the rare occasions when it does, the relationship is usually based on nothing more than lust. A mature woman who values herself doesn’t want to date a man who’s a victim or stuck in the past.Would you rather crash and burn or have a slow sizzle that bursts into hot flames over time? She’s going to walk away and find a grownup guy.◊♦◊Guys, correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe there’s a ‘lid for every pot’, a body type for every guy. Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not he speaks Mandarin.◊♦◊People in big cities say it’s hard to meet anyone.Sex was important, but that was not the most important thing between us… Feeling loved by another man has helped me being more self-confident.

But I needed to be very discreet, because my family life makes me happy and I didn’t want to change anything to it.

I’ve met many charming men who have been very nice to me.

Today's technology, connectivity and innovative applications make connecting with and meeting new friends easy.

But at the end of the day, you're still the one who decides who you find attractive and with whom you want to spend your time.

I’m in a relationship with kids and I tend to consider myself as being “in crisis”. I’ve had platonic, friendly, love relationships, in different places.

Chatting, talking on the phone, sending emails and getting to know new people have been very important for me and very rewarding emotionally speaking.

Tinder is causing a 'Dating Apocalypse.' That's right, this simple dating app is causing changes in human mating and dating behavior, the likes of which we've never seen before... Health Department and read their conclusion that Tinder is one cause of the nation-wide rise in STDs. You simply download the app to your smart phone, link to your Facebook account, choose up to six photos of yourself, and write a brief bio. You swipe left if you don't like them and swipe right if you do. But, is it just a hook-up app for the 'hit-it-and-quit-it' culture, or is it something more? And when you are matched, starting conversations is easier. Tinder is more efficient because it doesn't require answering a long series of questions to find the best matches for you. The decision-making process involved in using Tinder is both rational and emotional. And, if you use it, you'll probably find a match who swiped right to convince you to hook up with them. But it makes finding meaningful relationships easier as well.

that is, if you agree with the September article by Nancy Jo Sales, "Tinder and the Dawn of the 'Dating Apocalypse." Not convinced? If someone you like also swiped right on your photo, the app immediately informs you, "It's a Match! The Appeal If you've familiar with online dating, you may wonder what the appeal is, and how you can find someone worth your time given what little information the app gives and requires. The app is simple, easy on the eye and feels like a game. It's a matter of choosing whether to swipe left or right. You'll rationalize your swiping decision based on age, distance and a short bio (if included). Swiping left or right depends on how attractive you find a candidate, and that's pure emotion. If you believe the hype and speak to the wrong people, you'll be convinced that Tinder is just another hook up app. Almost 60 percent of all women who wrote a narrative in their profile included a reference to NOT wanting a hook-up. But you'll find just as many interesting, attractive and successful people who are only interested in a committed relationship. What happens after you're matched, depends on you and your partner.

Here’s what they said, followed by my thoughts on how they might overcome these dating problems and attract their best relationship.◊♦◊This is a common complaint from women. So guys, please pay attention to more than the boobs and the butt.